Five fun ways to easily add creativity to your life

creekside with bridge in the distance
To me, being creative means connecting unconnected dots, or connecting the same dots in a different way. There are many ways we are already doing that right now.

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Welcome to competitive martyrdom. You win!!

victim in a triangle
The Drama Triangle is a Dreamkiller. Competitive martyrdom keeps our attention focused on the drama instead of our Dream. It is terribly attractive and sticky. Awareness of the cycle helps us to stay self-directed, and we can take action to avoid being drawn in.

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What is playing the music of your soul?

sheet of music
the music of your soul must be played whether it’s with a violin or a computer or an airline ticket to an exciting destination.  This is how you create a life of fulfillment and joy!

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The 10 most common excuses for ignoring our Dreams

common excuses
We think excuses are explanations, but they are Dreamkillers.  They force us to ignore our Dreams by focusing our attention on feelings of scarcity.

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Give people back their story

Ibiyinka Alao standing by a large piece of his art
Ibi told a story from his childhood, about how his father allowed him to capture fireflies under the African skies. His father cautioned him, though, that the fireflies must be released or there would be

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The 5 best kept secrets for finding your passion

fingerprint in the shape of a heart
A feeling of restlessness and discontent has settled into our daily life. We’re either overworked or bored. Or the coworker (or manager!) who was merely annoying is now a real pain in the neck. Perhaps you can feel it. You could be hungry for change and have no idea where to start

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